How to Attract Women Tips
You might be surprised by how many women I attract, especially if you knew what I look like. Just to give you an idea though, I’ll describe myself. I’m 6′3″, but I weigh 400 pounds. I’m 40 years old, I wear glasses, and I’m losing my hair. (I have a “Friar Tuck” bald spot.)
And I still attract women. Here’s how.
I’m funny. Women like funny guys, and they like to laugh. But one thing you want to be careful of is being a funny loser. Rodney Dangerfield is funny, but he doesn’t attract women. Adam Sandler, on the other hand, has women all over him. And he’s no Brad Pitt. See the difference?
Make money. Women all over the world will deny it, but they’re attracted to money and power. You’re a man. Go make some money. It’s not that hard anymore, really. You can make money on the Internet by creating a blog and writing there regularly and then selling advertising.
Be confident. Women LOVE confident men. You become confident by setting and achieving goals. Start small if you need to, with little goals like getting up at a certain time every morning. Then work up to running a marathon or giving a speech. (Toastmasters is a great way to develop confidence too.) Then be willing to try things in public, like dancing, or singing karaoke. It’s more important that you be confident enough to try than it is that you be good at whatever it is. Lousy karaoke singers attract women in spite of their voice.
Be courteous. Women like gentlemen. Think Cary Grant; he’s one of the best role models a man who wants to attract women could have. The adjectives I’d use to describe Cary Grant include confident, polite, charming, and funny. Work on developing the same characteristics in yourself, and you’ll attract women no problem.
Be a challenge. If you make it too easy, then she’ll lose interest. How do you make it too easy? Call her a lot. Buy her lots of gifts. Shower her with compliments. It’s okay to express interest, but let her work for it too. Women want to prove themselves. Asking her out is fine, but spending every free minute with her is a huge turnoff. Seems like common sense, but men make the mistake of being over-available and over-eager all the time.
Exercise some self control. Learn how to spend time with a woman without staring at her. Let her initiate the touching. Moderate your alcohol consumption. Eat something healthy at dinner. Women like a man who demonstrates self-control.
Want to learn more about how to attract women? Consider looking into some of the excellent material on the subject that’s available from writers like David DeAngelo and Doc Love.
